Tuesday, 22 August 2017
Wednesday, 16 August 2017
“What he (UG) says doesn’t matter! I see Jesus there sitting in front of me!” – Larry Morris
Larry Morris and UG |
Larry Morris, ‘the pastor’ was one of them!
In UG portals, there were people
who made their presence felt through relentless chatter and incessant questioning but on
the other hand there were those who made a mark with their non-obtrusive, non-invasive,
benign presence soaked in peace and silence.
You would invariably find Larry
with his huge girth filling out the entire profile of a sofa, spread out next to UG, sporting a benign countenance, apparently lost in a ‘trance’.
Larry, the wise man, perhaps
feigned sleep to keep away unnecessary, needless conversations most of the time. He seemed to enjoy the exchanges people had with UG day in and day out. Under the hood of siesta, he was ever alert to UG’s presence and would respond immediately as soon as UG
called out his name, eager to oblige the master!
Larry’s biography, “U.G. Krishnamurti:
Dangerous Friend” is a rare gem, a dedication straight from the heart, to his true friend, philosopher and guide, UG.
Larry adored and revered UG silently and immensely!
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Larry describes what UG meant for him in these words:
" With me, it was all or nothing with U.G. Once about halfway into my relationship with him, U.G. called me and told me to come immediately to California. I explained I had a family commitment and I could come in a few days. He simply said, "One less" and it was obvious this was not a matter of negotiation. I got on a plane that day and subsequently lost that family relationship."
From the book, Morris, Larry. U.G. Krishnamurti: Dangerous Friend (p. 143).
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On that day in Bangalore, UG was in a murderous
mood bashing up Jesus Christ who he called ‘the misguided Jew’ and even offered to explain his 'mysterious' antecedents,
his vicious attack appeared unstoppable!
Right in the middle of this verbal storm,
I queried Larry as to how he being a Christian, and that too being a minister in a chapel,
could stomach this blasphemous tirade against the sagely Jesus?
Pat came Larry’s reply, “What
he says doesn’t matter! I see Jesus there sitting in front of me!”
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UG used to narrate (rather
repeat) a small story about Larry and Jesus, familiar to many UG friends.
Seems Larry once confessed to UG
about his delicate financial situation. His chips were down! The confession happened
during one of his numerous visits to Switzerland. They were at the time travelling
in a car. UG asked Larry to immediately pull the car to a stop by the roadside.
The road formed a bend near a small valley.
UG then directed Larry to walk down the
valley in a certain direction saying that he would find a certain church there. UG further suggested
that Larry should pray to Lord Jesus alone there seeking his intervention in the matter and that Jesus would certainly help him!
Clueless about this unseen chapel,
Larry began his trek down the valley and very soon found an old chapel!
After accomplishing his mission,
Larry ambled back towards the car. As he reached the car, UG had a surprise waiting for Larry, “ Do you know, after you left, your Jesus came here and said, ‘ your friend wants some dollars , tell me how I can find them here, that too in this ‘godforsaken’ place?”
The story finally had its happy ending!
Upon his return to the US, on reaching home, Larry had a task waiting for him - the funeral service for an
old lady who had just passed away in the village. Surprise of surprises - the old kind lady,
for some unknown reason bequeathed a considerable amount of money to Larry, our pastor!
Who really came to
Larry's rescue, Jesus or UG ?
Jury is still out on that one!
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Strange but true!
Many friends of UG found help when they sincerely
besought UG’s ‘intervention’! Many anecdotes!
What made people seek such things from UG still remains a mystery, especially from one who always said, “I have no powers, I would rather be known as a con man than a Godman!”
Major Dakshinamurthy recalls UG’s
‘boon’ to an old man who wanted to extend his life span.
Seems once an old man of eighty
years approached UG and pleaded that he wanted to live for five more years
as he had to fulfill some tasks. UG said, “OK, so be it! You shall live for another five
years!”
The old man disappeared and again resurfaced after exactly five years with yet another application for extension, this time a lease of life for another five years!
This was again repeated once more!
This was again repeated once more!
Major who was a witness to the occasion says that the man was very earnest and sincere about what he was asking and from whom!
On both occasions, UG did not
disappoint him.
Finally the man returned to UG , now all of
ninety-five years, he pleaded with UG,
“Sir, I now wish to die peacefully! I
have nothing more to seek. I am ready to go!”
“So be it!” was UG’s reply and
that is exactly what happened! He died shortly afterwards.
Chandrasekar Babu recalls that UG's friend Brahmachari Shivarama Sharma
(or Swamiji, to his friends) who was suffering from cancer, once besought UG, “ Sir,
grant me that I die painlessly in my sleep”, UG assured him, “ Yes sir, you will be gone
before my next visit (to India) !”
True to UG’s words, Brahmachari who hailed from Mysore and was on a visit to Bangalore to attend some family wedding, went to bed after
the ceremony and never woke up!
UG dismissed all such incidents as pure coincidences and declared that he had absolutely no part to play in
these natural events!
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Sunday, 6 August 2017
“You can’t lose a friend you don't have!” -UG
“You can’t lose a
friend you don't have!” -UG
Another hoax....Friendship Day 2017 driven by Commercial
interests!
Difference between relationship
and friendship?
“All relationships are mutual
exploitations”, explained UG, a great friend indeed to all those who knew him!
Friendship....perhaps is the only
interaction where we are not concerned, bothered or afraid to be our true
selves.....where there is no agenda or axe to grind....no crippling or harmful
expectations or obligations to fulfil.....where we can express ourselves
unhindered, uninhibited!
Friendship means no pretensions,
no fears, no need for hiding behind a mask or subjecting ourselves to ‘compulsive
hypocrisy’.... a norm in society.
All greetings, cards, wishes ring
hollow….they have become platitudes!
In a friend's company....you just
chill....there is no burden of the past or future....no need to cover up
silence with manufactured words…WHERE SILENCE IS PEACEFUL.
We just enjoy LIFE AS IT UNFOLDS
IN A FRIEND’S COMPANY!
Note: The caption has been amended in light of feedback from UG friends. The blogger stands corrected!
Note: The caption has been amended in light of feedback from UG friends. The blogger stands corrected!
Sunday, 9 July 2017
Happy Birthday UG!
UG and Melissa |
Happy Birthday UG!
The lure of music, magic and logic on humans is well known.
The Trinity has played a powerful role in proselytization – in the spread of many religions, traditions including all sorts of cults. The three are deadly lures that give us a ‘high’, just like narcotic drugs that enslave people.
Music has been paramount to Bhakti or devotion or emotion in religious lore whether in Hinduism or Sufism or Christianity etc.
Magic is akin to spiritual powers that are no more than the naturally endowed faculties, perceptions that are sometimes triggered in certain individuals but dormant in most.
Logic or reasoning, is yet another trap, the exclusive domain of the intellect, it is the disease of polished minds that exhibits an overarching tendency to ignore what is essential or real.
Religions and traditions have resorted to some or the other form of music, logic or magic to impress upon people, and sometimes on all three to dominate, enslave and rule the human mind.
The appeal of logic and reason has swayed the best of brains, magic has confounded the masses. And music, with its universal appeal, has captured people’s minds and hearts and mesmerized one and all.
Only a sagely soul like UG could debunk all the three and point to our excessive attachment, overarching tendency to be caught up in some of these golden traps.
UG on numerous occasions reiterated that there is no difference between his talk and the barking of a dog, letting us be grounded and not place a premium on speech. He explained that for him, operating in natural state even the musical notes of the Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony were just a play of sound and interval. He summarily dismissed music as acquired taste, a mere interpretation, translation of sound by a trained mind!
Similarly UG debunked all claims of magic, a powerful tool in the hands of market gurus– he used to relentlessly mock at the magic show of a famous Baba, the Walking God, the Miracle Man, Avatar from South of India who had global following, and who materialised imported Rolex watches out of thin air, but when Indira Gandhi imposed emergency, ended up in materialising local HMT watches!
UG could see through the subtle influences of music, magic and logic on our minds, how we could turn them into our crutches, without our being even aware!
शब्दादिà¤िः पंचà¤िरेव पंचपंचत्वमापुः स्वगुणेन बद्धाः ।
कुरंग मातंग पतंग मीन à¤ृंगा नरः पंचà¤िरंचितः किम् ॥
The deer, the elephant, the moth, the fish and the honeybee - these five meet death because of their bondage to one of the five senses. What then is the condition of a person who is attached to all five?
Today is UG’s birthday, incidentally Guru Poornima, the Full Moon Day dedicated to Guru!
Guru (personally speaking) is not a person, it is a Principle, a Universal Guiding Principle. It sets us free from illusions and delusions and all false notions! It is the Guiding Force that puts an end to all crutches, never becoming a crutch in the process! Guru can never be encapsulated and restricted to any form!
The Guru Poornima is also dedicated to Lord Dattatreya who summarily dismissed the misgivings of people that ‘Guru is only One’, by pointing out that he had as many as twenty one gurus – that He learnt from each and every form of life (animal and bird) around him!
And UG emphasized, re-emphasised and over-emphasised:
“A true Guru frees you from himself!”
Happy Guru Poornima and Happy Birthday UG!
Friday, 30 June 2017
“What is the worst thing that can happen to you?” - UG
UG and Kamal in Lonawaala ( Sahara Lake City), 2003 |
Sometimes in life, we suddenly hit a
‘cul-de-sac’ or the metaphoric ‘dead end’ and are left with no options but to
STOP! We then feel an utter sense of ‘being lost’! In those moments, thought
suddenly stops and gropes in the dark, inducing a fearful state!
‘Getting
lost’ perhaps has a benign side to it too – it perhaps signals the end of the
tyranny of ‘the known’, only if we could dare stop looking for solutions!
****
UG
pushed people sometimes to abandon ‘hope and help’ and to deal with uncertainty
or reality ‘as it is’!
Here
is a piece of pragmatic advice to our pilot friend Kamal who took UG out in a
hired taxi in London for his ‘constitutional’ (UG’s equivalent of a ‘walk in
the park’)!
This ride, it turned out, held several lessons for Kamal.
Before even getting behind the wheel, let us see how UG firstly helped Kamal to get a fat discount
from the car rental agency giving us a taste of his pragmatic approach to life!
When
Kamal walked into the rental agency, UG too tagged along
faithfully.
When
they reached the counter and Kamal was about to pay up, UG who had initiated a
conversation with one of the ladies there began introducing
himself, “I am UG Krishnamurti, perhaps you may have seen me on your BBC
Channel. I give interviews on your TV. This is my friend Kamal here! I am with
him and he is driving me around London today…… Is it possible that he could get a
discount?”
The
lady at the counter understood and smiled, she did not have the heart to say no to the
charming man and straight away declared a 25% discount.
Was
this cheap and vulgar ‘self-aggrandisement’ by UG? That too at a rental agency? Was UG seeking any benefit for himself?
UG
was far more pragmatic than many who pride themselves for being worldly-wise!
If his chipping in could help lighten Kamal's bill, UG was prepared to go an extra mile! UG
constantly chided his celebrity friend, the Bollywood Director Mahesh Bhatt,
“What is the use of flaunting your name or fame or celebrity status if you can’t
translate that to do something useful, beneficial for people?”
Not
only did UG help Kamal get a discount using his ‘ BBC fame’, but now he was working
on a 'strategy' to maximise the discount, he now gently nudged Kamal, “Hey Mister, tell them
you are an Air India pilot and ask them if they give special discounts to
pilots, show them your ID. Also tell them that you fly to London very often and
you will be able to give more business in future and that you will
introduce them to all your friends!”
A practical lesson on hard-selling oneself in the cruel 'money minded' world!
The
lady once again did not disappoint, She smilingly obliged with a
new flat discount rate of 50% on the car rent!
UG effect was tangible!
****
UG’s ‘constitutional’ started! The rubber hit the road, as they say! Kamal, not
particularly familiar with the dreaded traffic maze of London
suburbs, wearily started driving.
{ An aside!
Seems
London suburbs present the most intricate traffic challenge to drivers. It is a
well-known phenomenon endorsed by the brain surgeons that London cab and bus
drivers have enlarged hippocampus (a
seahorse-shaped section in the brain that facilitates long-term
memory storage in the occipital brain as well as helps in spatial navigation.) Surgeons and brain scientists who have
operated on the brains of London taxi drivers have concluded that the enlarged
size of the hippocampus is due to extensive training involved and the
memorizing of nearly 25,000 streets of the metro!
}
Many
close friends of UG have tasted his shenanigans while driving, while seated next
to him!
To negotiate the unfamiliar entries and exits on the Motorways, Kamal
kept constantly glancing into a printed copy of the A-Z road map on his lap!
Back in early 90s, GPS was still to make its foray into automobiles in a big way!
Kamal
admits that he was not doing well trying to cope up with the road as well as
the map at the same time! At one point, UG irked by this inane act simply
snatched away the map from Kamal and flung it into the back seat, “Hey
Mister! Use your eyes, and not maps! Look ahead in front of you! Just read all
those signposts, follow the directions and just keep driving! That is good enough!”
Kamal
had no choice but to adapt to the new found driving style, that too on the fly!
After
several turns and twists, UG finally motioned Kamal to stop the car at some
place in the city and got out asking Kamal to carry on.
As
UG slammed the door shut, Kamal shedding all his inhibitions let out a cry,
“UG, I am completely lost! I do not know my way around here!”
UG
came around to the window and looking into Kamal’s eyes spoke, “Hey mister, just go on ! You say that you are lost! What is the worst thing that can happen
to you? Just keep going! Good luck! ” and walked away without looking back!
Kamal, simply clueless prodded on for some more time…………eventually he hit upon a familiar
street, closer to where his cousin lived and he heaved a huge sigh of
relief!
Says
Kamal, UG’s “What is the worst thing that can happen to you?” serves him as a
guidepost to this day and gives him the strength to ignore the vagaries and uncertainties of life and carry on!
****
Another famous UG short one-liner was, " What next?"
Major Dakshinamurti had a car break-down while driving UG from Bangalore to Chennai. They were in a No Man's Land! There was no hope of reaching a mechanic or finding a garage anywhere nearby.
When UG learnt of their plight, he seemed to have asked," What next?" pushing Major to work on the next possible line of action.
Major excused himself and went about looking for help while UG stayed back in the car. After a length of time when Major returned to the car after managing to secure some help in the form of a mechanic , he was shocked to see UG in a deep, peaceful slumber right in the middle of nowhere!
Left to himself, in the middle of nowhere, with nothing to be done, UG just did what was the best thing to do....he fell asleep!
UG's " What next?" was a gentle reminder to many of his friends who had been hit by life and suffered some kind of loss including death of near and dear ones.
When UG's son Vasnath died of cancer, UG asked his son's girlfriend, a Christian girl who was religiously holding on to the urn carrying his son's ashes for immersion in the river, " What next?" asking her to forget about the dead man and pushing her to carry on with her own life, find a new life partner and settle down instead!
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Thursday, 22 June 2017
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